Hard thing to admit...We trusted the wrong people

Well, we are having a parent fail. Our pediatrician examined Cori. Then an endocrinologist. No one ever said the words..."Cloaca Anomoly." Yet, the peds urologist who told us this child would need one simple surgery had declared her condition as such before he ever examined her. What is going on here?

We posted these and other questions on a blog we trust. We have had a resounding response that we must take Cori to Children's Hospital in Cincinnati, Ohio. It is the only pediatric colo-rectal center in this country. It kills me to think we trusted our pediatrician, who sent us to the local guy who mostly does circumcisions.

Is it possible that we let a guy operate on her who has only limited experience in this area? Please, God, no.

We have to wait for a referral from the pediatrician who examined her first who never mentioned cloaca anomoly.

Mr. Expert declared such before he ever saw her anatomy. Then he said it was a simple fix. Then her said the incontinence was temporary. Then he said he told us she might never re-achieve continence............While never admitting that she was completely continent in China and add days before his "corrective" surgery.

This is a child of God, not an experiment. PLEASE pray that God makes the way for the full truth, makes insurance pay, and restores her to dignity.

PS....if you read this and are on board, would you consider emailing me at anniewright@bellsouth.net?